Can same-sex couples marry in New Hampshire?

Yes. On June 3, 2009, Governor Lynch signed a marriage equality bill (House Bill 436, An Act Relative to Civil Marriage and Civil Unions) that extended the right to marry to same-sex couples. The bill became effective January 1, 2010, simultaneously ending the availability of New Hampshire civil unions on the same date. On January 1, 2011, all existing New Hampshire civil unions were transformed into marriages.

Four years later, in Obergefell v. Hodges (135 S.Ct. 2584 (2015)), the U.S. Supreme Court made marriage equality a reality nationwide when it held that the U.S. Constitution guarantees same-sex couples the right to marry. GLAD’s own Mary Bonauto represented the plaintiffs during oral arguments. Post-Обергефелл, all 50 states are required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, and all states must respect the marriages of same-sex couples performed in other jurisdictions.

For more information about getting married in New Hampshire, consult GLAD’s publication, Как пожениться в Нью-Гэмпшире.

Will New Hampshire respect my marriage? Will other states?

Yes. New Hampshire will respect the legal marriages of same-sex couples regardless of where the marriage was performed, just as all states will now respect the marriage of a same-sex couple married in New Hampshire.

Will the federal government respect my marriage?

Yes. Thanks to the recent demise of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) in Windsor v. United States (133. S.Ct. 2675 (2013)), the federal government will recognize and respect the legal marriages of same-sex couples.

DOMA, a federal statute which defined marriage exclusively as the union between one man and one woman, once prevented same-sex spouses from accessing the 1000+ federal laws pertaining to marriage, including taxes, Social Security (including SSDI and SSI), immigration, bankruptcy, FMLA, federal student financial aid, Medicaid, Medicare, veteran’s benefits, and TANF. Happily, in 2013 the U.S. Supreme Court struck down DOMA as unconstitutional. GLAD filed the first challenge to DOMA in 2009, Gill v. OPM (699 F.Supp.2d 374 (2010)), and the legal framework developed in that case was used in many subsequent cases, Виндзор includedGLAD was also responsible for coordinating the Виндзор amici briefs.

Unfortunately, one issue that has yet to be definitively resolved by Виндзор и Обергефелл concerns spousal benefits and self-insured health plans. While New Hampshire state law prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation, self-insured health plans are governed by federal law. Title VII, the federal anti-discrimination statute, only prohibits discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin—sexual orientation is not explicitly included. As a result, some self-insured employers claim they can legally deny benefits to same-sex spouses.

Luckily, this issue is far from settled. Recently, the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (“EEOC”) took the position that Title VII’s prohibition against ‘sex discrimination’ encompasses discrimination based on sexual orientation (see ____ v. Foxx, Agency No. 2012-24738-FAA-3 (July 15, 2015)).

If your employer is discriminating against you in spousal healthcare benefits on the basis of sexual orientation, contact GLAD Answers.

Могу ли я получить пособие по социальному обеспечению в случае смерти супруга/супруги?

Да, поскольку, как указано выше, однополые супружеские пары имеют право на все льготы, предоставляемые разнополым супружеским парам.

Однако, до тех пор, пока Обергефелл против Ходжеса В решении от 26 июня 2015 года многие однополые пары проживали в штатах, где неконституционные законы о браке запрещали однополым парам вступать в брак. Поэтому после смерти супруга они не могли претендовать на пособие по случаю потери кормильца, пробыв в браке не менее 9 месяцев.

Чтобы исправить эту несправедливость, Lambda Legal подала два иска, Эли против Саула и Торнтон против комиссара социального обеспечения и добился успеха в получении возможности для однополых пар подавать заявления на получение пособий по случаю потери кормильца в системе социального обеспечения, если они либо никогда не были женаты (Эли против Саула) или наконец смогли вступить в брак, но были женаты менее 9 месяцев, когда их супруг скончался (Торнтон против комиссара социального обеспечения). 

Эти два решения позволяют однополым парам, которые были исключены из брака из-за дискриминационных законов штата и, следовательно, не имели права претендовать на пособие по потере кормильца от Службы социального обеспечения, подать заявление. Однако для удовлетворения такого заявления необходимо предоставить достаточное количество документов, подтверждающих Службе социального обеспечения, что единственной причиной, по которой они не выполнили требование о 9 месяцах, были дискриминационные законы штата.

По следующей ссылке вы найдете более подробную информацию и ответы на часто задаваемые вопросы по каждому иску, а также перечислены некоторые способы, которыми вы можете предоставить документацию, необходимую для получения пособия по случаю потери кормильца: Information for Surviving Same-Sex Partners and Spouses Previously Excluded from Social Security Survivor’s Benefits Because of Unconstitutional State Marriage Laws | Lambda Legal

What steps can a couple take to legally safeguard their relationship in New Hampshire?

Существуют различные юридические документы, которые могут защитить отношения пары, независимо от того, находятся ли они в официальном браке или нет.

  1. Соглашение о взаимоотношениях или контракт: A couple has the option of drafting a written cohabitation agreement, outlining their respective rights with regards to property, finances, and other aspects of their relationship. Although the New Hampshire Supreme Court has not yet ruled on the subject, these agreements should be enforced like any other contract. A number of states, Massachusetts included, explicitly enforce cohabitation agreements. Although a couple can choose to use a cohabitation agreement to make plans for the custody and support of children, a New Hampshire court will not uphold any agreement it finds to contravene the child’s best interests.
  2. Долгосрочная доверенность: A couple can choose to grant each other the durable power of attorney, allowing one partner to make financial decisions on the other’s behalf in the event of incapacity or disability. The requirements are minimal: any competent person may appoint another person as their “attorney-in-fact,” although the power of attorney form must be signed and notarized. If no appointment is made, a family member will be empowered to make decisions for the incapacitated individual.
  3. Advance Directive for Health Care: A couple can choose to each create an “advance directive,” allowing them to make medical decisions on one another’s behalf in the event of an emergency. Absent an advance directive, medical care providers look to next- of-kin to make health care decisions for an incapacitated individual. If an unmarried couple wants to make decisions for one another, they need an advance directive.

An advance directive has two parts: a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care and a Living Will. In the Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care, you appoint a person to act as your health care agent and make medical decisions for you when you are incapacitated. You may also express your desires about end of life issues, including nutrition, hydration, and other life-sustaining treatments. The Living Will is a short statement about whether you want life-sustaining treatment continued when you are near death or permanently unconscious. You should give a copy of the advance directive to your doctors and may also consider giving it to family members.

An advance directive may either be signed by yourself and two witnesses, or signed by just yourself in the presence of a notary public. The following individuals do not count as witnesses: your spouse or heir, beneficiaries under any will or trust you may have, and the person you are appointing as your health care agent. Only one witness can be an employee of your healthcare provider. An advance directive can only be revoked by you.

If you later become incapacitated and a guardian is appointed for you, the appointing court should not revoke your health care agent’s authority unless there is clear and convincing evidence that doing so would be in your best interests.

  1. Воля: Without a will, a deceased unmarried person’s property passes to: (1) their children; (2) their family; or (3) if next-of-kin cannot be located, to the state. If you wish to provide for others not on this list, such as your partner, a will is essential. Even if you have few possessions, you can name who will administer your estate in your will. If you have children, you can also nominate someone to be their future guardian in a will.
  2. Документы по планированию похорон: Upon death, a person’s body is given to his or her next-of-kin. This can mean that a person’s own partner has no right to remove the body or make plans for a final resting place. To avoid confusion and persuade relatives to honor your wishes, you can leave explicit written directions giving another person (such as your partner or a friend) control over the funeral and burial arrangements. While this document is not binding, it should help avoid complications in any but the most adversarial families. Some people include these instructions as part of a will, but since a will may not be found for days after death, it is preferable to give the instructions directly to the person you want to take care of matters, as well as to family members.
  3. Guardianship: New Hampshire’s broad guardianship laws allow, among other things, an individual to nominate another person as the guardian of their person, estate, or both.68 The advantage of nominating a guardian in advance is that you are selecting the person to take over all aspects of your financial matters.

Нужен ли адвокат для получения этих документов?

GLAD рекомендует проконсультироваться с юристом по поводу этих документов.

Although forms are available, the form may not be suited to your individual needs and wishes. Moreover, an attorney may be able to better help effectuate your goals, for example, by drafting a will in a way which is more likely to deter a will contest by unhappy family members, or an appointment of a health care agent with very specific instructions. In addition, an attorney may help to navigate the legal uncertainties flowing from the areas of overlap between these documents. Радостные ответы can provide referrals to attorneys who are members of GLAD’s Lawyer Referral Service.

Что произойдет, если нам придется расторгнуть брак?

После Обергефелл против Ходжеса, same-sex spouses everywhere should be able to dissolve their marriages on the same terms as different-sex spouses. New Hampshire explicitly applies its divorce statutes to same-sex couples (see, e.g., In re Munson & Beal, 2016 N.H. LEXIS 180 (2016) (applying divorce statute to a same-sex couple)).

However, spouses should note that when New Hampshire courts divide marital property and award alimony, one of the factors a judge considers is length of marriage (NH RSA 458:16-a, II(a); 19, IV). Unfortunately for spouses whose partnership pre-dates marriage equality, the length of the marriage may not accurately reflect the true length of the relationship, resulting in an unbalanced division of assets. A recent New Hampshire Supreme Court case, In the Matter of Munson & Beal (2016 N.H. LEXIS 180 (2016)), addressed this issue and ruled that a judge may consider premarital cohabitation when dividing marital property. GLAD submitted an amicus brief in the case, Munson Amicus Brief.

If you are going through divorce proceedings in New Hampshire and believe your division of assets may be unfairly affected by length of marriage, contact Glad Answers.

Какие стандарты должны соблюдаться однополыми парами с детьми, которые расстаются?

Однополым парам с детьми, которые расстаются, следует:

  1. Поддерживайте права родителей ЛГБТК+;
  2. Уважайте существующие отношения независимо от их юридического статуса;
  3. Уважайте существующие родительские отношения с детьми после разрыва отношений;
  4. Поддерживать преемственность для детей;
  5. Стремитесь к добровольному решению;
  6. Помните, что расставание дается нелегко;
  7. Расследовать заявления о жестоком обращении;
  8. Не допускать, чтобы отсутствие соглашений или правовых отношений определяло результаты;
  9. Относиться к судебному разбирательству как к крайней мере; и
  10. Откажитесь от использования гомофобных/трансфобных законов и настроений для достижения желаемого результата.

Более подробную информацию об этих стандартах можно найти в публикации «Защита семей: стандарты для семей ЛГБТК+» по адресу: Защита семей: стандарты для ЛГБТ-семей

Does New Hampshire still allow civil unions?

Not anymore. Effective January 1, 2010, New Hampshire stopped issuing civil union licenses; and effective January 1, 2011, all existing New Hampshire civil unions were converted into marriages by operation of law. If you have a civil union (or registered domestic partnership) from another state, New Hampshire will grant you the same rights and benefits, and hold you to the same responsibilities, as a married couple in New Hampshire. However, with the exception of Social Security, the federal government will not recognize your civil union.